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Extended (not belated) gifting
“Belated” is a terrible word; I love deferred gestures and gifts to brighten the emotional lull after a birthday or holiday. I was...
Feb 4, 20241 min read


Montana, January 2024
A very nice father-daughter visit. We snow-shoed, ate, did a bunch of NYT crosswords in record time, ate, hiked, admired the full moon ,...
Jan 27, 20241 min read


Birthdays with cake
Birthday do-over! When I finally reached Missoula after a 36-hour travel fiasco, this delicious chocolate-raspberry cake was waiting for...
Jan 25, 20241 min read


Birthdays without cake
I didn’t plan this pity party. I thought I’d be curled up on the couch in Montana, writing a warm and grateful birthday reflection....
Jan 24, 20241 min read
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